In my 20 years of doing readings and helping people I see a dangerous trend more and more now where people are constantly "Self Diagnosing", through a Western psychological lens, and mixing it with Vedic thinking and clarity. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING. In fact, in many ways they cancel out or at least interrupt the progress of the other.
This is why the more you look for answers to your psychology, in more and more places, trying to "integrate it all" the more confused you may get.
Clear, Concise, Transcendent
This will likely be the most comprehensive, concise (and even surgical) analysis of your emotional patterning you have ever heard - based on timeless Vedic astrological principles and methods.
This specific tendency, shows this specific pattern and here is what you can do to feel better, calm down and reconnect to the Self, not spend so much time thinking about "healing your childhood wounds". Of course, there is nothing wrong with that, but the Yogic perspective is more practical, with practices you can do, etc.